A step-by-step tutorial for creating a DIY Christmas family photoshoot by yourself that look dreamy and professional in front of your Christmas tree.
Christmas portraits sneak up on us every single year. Before I know it I am scrambling trying to find a photographer, a date we miraculously have free for a photo session in our busy schedules, and keep everyone in the family in a good mood / healthy long enough in cold/flu season to say “cheese” for the camera.
Spoiler alert: I drop the ball at scheduling a “pro” photoshoot basically every Christmas. Is this familiar to you?
I don’t mention it often, but for several years in college, I was a family studio portrait photographer. Once Thanksgiving hit, I was cranking out 15-20 Christmas portraits daily.
It was hard. But it taught me a lot of great tricks for getting great angles and sweet kids’ expressions (no matter their mood) using any camera, even a mobile phone.
Why Taking Your Own Christmas Family Portraits Is Worth It
Having family photos taken by a real professional photographer is really important to support local artists in your area, but if it’s just not in the cards for you this season, here is why doing a DIY session instead is worth it.
Usually, the perfect portrait backdrop is already set up right in your living room anyway so why not go for it! I think taking photos in front of your own tree is even more special than a professionally styled setup because it’s YOUR tree.
Kids especially can feel more comfortable in their own home, especially those with special needs who need a little extra comfort.
Every year, I use our tree as an opportunity to get a pretty shot of our girls, but the best part is I can sneak it in when they’re in a good mood or not sick with a cold.
We can work a DIY photoshoot into our super busy schedule. And if we try to get photos but a complete toddler meltdown happens, it’s no harm done because we can just try again the next day.
Professional family photos are usually several hundred dollars, so DIYing them allows you to save your holiday budget for travel, gifts, etc.
For this year’s, Robert and I wrangled the kids into their Christmas jammies right after church on Sunday to get the job done in 5 minutes using my iPhone. It’s not as striking as when I use my Canon 6D DSLR camera, but it’s pretty darn awesome.
DIY Christmas Family Photoshoot In Front of Your Tree
If you’re in a pinch, these tips for a DIY Christmas family photoshoot are the BEST for wrangling the kids for a sweet Christmas card pic right in your living room.
You can make your kids’ photos as laid back and candid as you’d like. (See that cookie in little Regan’s hand in the photo below? Bribery doesn’t hurt, ya know? 😉)
If at some point this season you’re gathered around your tree with loved ones, maybe these tips can help you capture the moment during your festivities.
I rounded up Regan and Olivia for a quick DIY Christmas photo shoot a few years ago, and (even though Regan was not having it) while I was at it, I took a picture of my setup to hopefully help show the process.
Whether you have a DSLR camera or a cell phone, this works!
How to Set Up Your Camera for Christmas Family Photos
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Position Yourself for Good Lighting
Aim for Midday
It’s best to avoid photographing people if there is harsh sunlight streaming directly through any windows (at sunrise or sunset). You want natural light to be soft not glaring.
I shoot only in natural light 99% of the time, but those soft glowing night shots are great to capture with candid moments of kids facing the Christmas tree.
Turn Off the Lights
I rely on only sunlight 99% of the time, so to avoid any weird hues on peoples’ faces in the photo, turn off all of the lights in the room except for the lights on the Christmas tree and sunlight streaming in from a window or open door.
Position Subjects to Face a Light Source
Place the people in the photo between the Christmas tree and your natural light source (like a window or open door) so they will be lit from behind and in front.
Check out this super professional diagram I made so you see what I mean. Haha!
Important: NEVER use a flash… it will destroy that dreamy glow from the tree.
If your Christmas tree is in a room that doesn’t get any natural light, you can opt to shoot using just the tree lights and a small lamp opposite from the people in your picture to get just enough light on their faces to make them show up in the photo without being too bright.
But overhead lighting is a definite no-no.
A great trick to get good lighting on faces, especially with kids, is to have your subjects lie down facing up under the tree and shooting over top of them allowing the glow of the Christmas lights to illuminate them evenly.
Keep your poses as natural as possible and let your subject lead the way. People look their best in photos when they feel comfortable.
Try sitting in front of the tree, standing in front of the tree, interacting with ornaments on the tree or presents underneath; throw in dancing and silly faces and have fun with it.
Frame Your Subject
Always try to shoot at eye level with your subject. So if you’re shooting kids, squat or sit down so that their faces are the same height as your camera lens.
For adults, photograph them from just slightly above eye level to decrease the look of double chins.
Clean the Lens
If you’re using a mobile phone, clean off your phone’s camera lens before you start and avoid touching the lens until your photo session is finished.
Turn On Live Photo
Turn on your Live Photo option in your camera settings so you can get an added bonus of sweet moments on 3 second video. It won’t reduce the quality of your still photo.
Adjust Exposure If Needed
Shoot directly from your camera, not any apps that can decrease the quality. You can adjust the exposure if your phone is auto-brightening the picture too much.
Use a Tripod (or Prop) and the Timer Setting
Use a mobile phone tripod, if possible. Or if anything, prop up your phone on something in the room, and set a timer, if possible, to avoid camera shake (which can create blurriness).
If you have a smart watch, just click your phone’s camera button from your watch.
For DSLR Cameras
If you are shooting with a DSLR, be sure to switch your dial to manual mode.
Set your aperture (f/) to the lowest setting your lens will allow for that dreamy, blurry effect. I set my lens at f/2.0, but if your lens doesn’t go that low, just opt for the smallest number it will allow.
Next, set your shutter speed to 1/200 or higher. Any less than that (especially with kids) will make the people in your photo look blurry, if they move.
Now that you have those two settings, you can adjust your ISO depending on how much light you need. The higher you crank your ISO number, the more grainy your photo will look, but a higher ISO will let in more light and create a brighter photo.
For white balance, set it to auto since it will give you a “best guess” for your photo’s coloring.
(If you only have a cell phone, you can get the Adobe Lightroom App to use these settings on an iPhone or an Android too. It’s totally free!)
Because you’re shooting at a wide (low number) aperture, it will cause a blurry effect in your background and Christmas lights will have that dreamy, soft look. But that makes it even more important to make sure you’re focusing on your subjects’ faces so they appear sharp.
If you’re shooting on a DSLR, you can set your focus point to do this.
If you’re shooting on a cell phone, tap on the person’s face you’re shooting on your screen to set the focus.
I use Adobe Lightroom for editing my photos from my DSLR on my Macbook, but if you’re using a cell phone, you can use the Adobe Lightroom mobile app again for adjusting.
The main thing I do to adjust my photos in editing is…
- Increase exposure
- Increase whites
- Decrease highlights
- Decrease shadows
- Decrease blacks…
…to create a more evenly lit photo. But even without editing, your photos will likely have a soft, natural glow.
My Photography Gear
If you want to know about any of the photography gear I use, I have a Canon 6D and a Canon 50mm f/1.8 lens for portraits, but really any basic DSLR can handle this and a mobile phone can manage in a pinch (I have the iPhone 13 Max Pro).
I hope that helps! And I hope it allows you to capture precious moments with family and loved ones this season.